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Our minds are wired to feel full only when fed with the right emotions. This has been true since humans began living together and forming communities. Among these emotions, three stand out. Praise, pride, and pain.
Praise
Praise shapes who we are and how others see us. We constantly chase it, even when we pretend we don’t.
At work, we seek both money and recognition. One feeds the pocket, the other feeds the mind. Both motivate us to do more.
At home, we look for kind words, warm hugs, or approval from family and friends. Yet we often hide this need because it feels like weakness. That insecurity stops us from showing how much praise matters.
Pride
Pride is like walking on the sharp edge of a sword. Risky, but tempting. We still go after it.
Whether in career, relationships, or personal goals, respect is something we crave. It sits in the front row of our thoughts.
We follow pride wherever it’s available, even if the path is tough. And when pride is threatened, we’re ready to fight for it.
This hunger has even caused wars, both ancient and modern. The world wars are proof.
Pain
Pain is the emotion we try hardest to avoid, but it’s impossible to escape.
We run from it, cover it up, or act like it’s not there. Yet, pain always leaves its mark. And strangely, it’s the best teacher we’ll ever have.
Pain forces us to grow up. It pushes us to take responsibility for our actions. It makes us wiser, even when we hate it. That is its hidden beauty.
The Balance
We need to embrace praise, pride, and pain instead of fearing them. These emotions make us stronger when we face them early and honestly. Over time, we learn how to balance them and live a fuller life.
Gen Alpha, the kids growing up now, will have to learn this balance faster than we did. Their world will move quicker, but these truths won’t change.
Exercise for today: Respecting the P’s
Right now, you’re feeling at least one of these three. Notice it. Accept it. Learn from it.
Make thoughtful decisions. Don’t rush. The lessons are clearer when you take your time.
Enjoy these feelings while they last, even the tough ones. They’re shaping you into someone wiser.
And remember the grass that looks greener on the other side? It never really is.
Frequently Asked Questions
Because it makes us feel valued and motivates us to keep going.
No. Healthy pride builds confidence. Only unchecked pride causes harm.
It teaches lessons we wouldn’t learn otherwise and makes us responsible for our actions.
It helps you think clearly, make better choices, and avoid impulsive mistakes.
Be aware of them, accept them, and learn from each without letting any one emotion control you.
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